Some Sunday shots from The Compound


Little Guy (aka Dale) can fly on his own now. Tom spotted him in the redbud tree and I was able to get a few photos.


Mama’s still close, keeping an eye on things.


Bows and flows of angel hair…


Or dog hair. According to Tim, Pixie and Penny are part of the Furmin-Nation. (Good luck keeping Janet Jackson out of your brain after that.)


Thanks to clouds, Sunday night’s Supermoon has at least a spot of definition.

Every time I think of you

Hard not to remember where Tim, Tom, and I were this time last year. I miss this boy and his speckled toes.


Rexford G. Lambert

Friday we were talking at Craft Night about how Pixie has matured in the last year. I used to say, “Pixie never has a bad day.” And she still doesn’t, but she has accepted the role of alpha dog in Tim’s household, and it makes her a little more serious. She’s growing up. Rex would be proud of her. He’d tell Penny to stop being afraid of the water cooler.

And he’d tell Tim to take him for a ride in the car, please. Can we go now? How about now? Now seems like a good time!

He was a good dog. He still makes me smile.

He was no more than a baby then

Yesterday when I went out to take a package from the UPS driver at the gate, I noticed a small bird on the ground and didn’t think much of it. But later, when I went out with the dogs, they thought a LOT of it. Their interest was in making it a morning snack, and I realized that the bird couldn’t get away from them. I shooed the dogs back inside and had a look around. That’s when I spotted a nest that had fallen from a tree and broken up, and now its occupant, too young to fly, was helpless against Compound dogs and also this guy who was wandering around.

We have so many doves living on or around The Compound, and I figured this one was a mourning dove. Much to his dismay, I used a small stick from his nest to direct him into a box, where’d I’d placed the part of the nest I could salvage. I was keeping a wary eye skyward, as I didn’t want an irate parent to swoop down on me, but when she finally arrived, she stayed on the ground, getting as close to me as she dared, to watch what I was doing with her young’un.

What I really wanted was to return the nest to the tree–a nice leafy, tall ornamental in our front flower bed (planted as a tiny thing by James many years ago, we call it “John’s tree” in his late boyfriend’s memory), but the good branches are too high for me to reach, even by ladder. I finally took this from the backyard, where it’s been hanging with a dead plant forever, and transferred nest and reluctant baby into it.

(iPhone picture added after original post.)

Once the new home was hanging in the tree, the baby bird clung to the wire edges instead of getting into the nest. Mama landed a couple of times, pecking at the nest and apparently soothing her child. Later, Tim moved it higher so the birds wouldn’t be so exposed while hanging from the lower branches. A couple of times I checked on them by looking through windows. I was watching when the dad showed up. Mama flew over the sticks on the ground, as if saying, “See? I told you we shouldn’t have scrimped on building supplies and hired that cheap contractor.”

Tim and I left to run errands, and by the time we returned, Mama had coaxed baby down into the nest, and they were both resting (though she’s not in this photo).

Late afternoon, I checked on them again. No parents were around, and baby was still in the nest, but now I realized that the afternoon sun was baking him.

Fortunately, Tom came home not long after and using the ladder, was able to find a great place for the hanging nest where leaves would shade it from the sun at any angle.

This whole procedure was watched from high in our redbud tree by both parents.

Just before dark, Tom checked on them again, and mother and child were both sleeping inside the new home.

This morning, I went outside to see how things were. I spotted Mama on the branch next to the nest.

Then, when I walked beneath it, guess who I spied enjoying the day, as if none of yesterday’s trauma ever happened?

I think the Muse of Stevie Nicks will bring good luck to me because as it turns out, this is a family of white-winged doves.

April Photo A Day: Busy

I have two paintings to ship, and I’ve just had another one commissioned. Good news, right? Also, Tim and I are making final decisions and doing edits on submissions for BEST GAY ROMANCE 2014. But really, the busiest thing at The Compound for the last ten days has been this:

Many years ago, I got rid of a ton of small appliances that were rarely used and took up space in the kitchen. When Jim found out I didn’t have a blender, HE WOULD NOT HAVE IT. In truth, this blender he gave us has been used quite a bit since it arrived. It used to do all the dog veggie cubes when we were feeding them raw. And these past few days, it’s been put into service making fruit and veggie smoothies and various stuffings that were part of the raw detox thing.

So here’s to you, Busy Blender. Thank you. And oh yeah, thank Jim, too.

Prompt from FMS Photo A Day.

Runway Monday: Europe Here We Come (PR 11:12)


On the most recent episode of Lifetime’s Project Runway, four of the designers and their sewing assistants (previously eliminated designers) were sent to different European cities: Paris, Berlin, London, and Barcelona, where they were to be inspired in some way by the city and buy their textiles there before returning to the States to create their looks.

One designer had almost been eliminated the previous week but was getting a second chance. If you watch the show but haven’t seen the last couple of episodes, SPOILERS AHEAD. I thought the fifth designer was ridiculous for being whiny because she didn’t get to go to Europe. First, she was lucky not to be eliminated. Second, she had a good assistant to do the challenge with her. Third, she was in one of the GREATEST CITIES IN THE WORLD: New York. As Tim Gunn pointed out, it’s a fashion capital and there’s no way it can’t be inspiring in a million ways. And fourth, she could be me. I didn’t even have the opportunity to venture outside The Compound grounds.

And I’m NOT complaining. I took my inspiration from the ferns and flowers that grow around my house. I used fabrics I bought locally from Jo-Ann and High Fashion. And I have a great Model Muse, Raven, to model my look.

I designed a double column dress for Raven: an underdress of glittered green satin and an overdress of embroidered net.

Detail of the hemline. You can see her little green slipper peeking out.

This gives a little better sense of how the green fabric glitters.


One last glance at my homage to the natural beauty around me every day.

Hope you’ve enjoyed the look. See you next time on the runway!

To see previous designs from this season:

Episode 11: Finally On My Own
Episode 10: The Art of Fashion
Episode 9: He Said, She Said
Episode 8: Take It All Off
Episode 7: A Sticky Situation
Episode 6: Senior Fling
Episode 5: A Little Bit Country (A Little Bit Rock ‘N Roll)
Episode 4: The Ultimate Hard and Soft
Episode 3: Surprise Me
Episode 2: Spin Out
Episode 1: There Is No I In Team

April Photo A Day: Water

As I’ve said before, I love water. And I love salads. But now, on Day 7 of this raw food detox, I’ll admit that I’m getting weary of so many salads, even if they are all different from one another and tasty.

I don’t miss meat, and I love vegetables. But I miss cooked vegetables. And it’s weird to make meals for Tom and Tim and eat different meals myself. This photo is of their salad. Mine was precut for me by Lindsey, who’s been a champ at following the plan, putting meals together for herself, Rhonda and me, and making sure I have the right ingredients for the meals I prepare for myself.

Tonight–catch me!–because tonight, I get a vegan, organic chocolate chip cookie. I’m pretty sure it’ll be one of the best cookies I’ve ever eaten.

Prompt from FMS Photo A Day.