Random Compound

A fun aspect of using bottle caps as part of my in-progress series of paintings is the accumulation and research of the caps. All kinds of friends, friends of friends, and restaurant or bar staff have donated bottle caps. Then there are the ones I find in random places or ask for when I’m out with friends. For example, I still know which caps Lynne and I found on our trip to Alabama last year, including the two I got when I bought us soft drinks at a rural store. Or the one Jim gave me when we were with Tim and Hanley at Té House of Tea last summer. Even though any stories will remain mostly unknown to people who see (and hopefully BUY!) the paintings, I’ll know about them. Sometimes the product slogans become part of a painting’s title (for example, a painting with Coca Cola bottle caps is titled “Tom Is The Real Thing,” or a Pepsi cap led me to a vintage Pepsi campaign and the title “Hanley Has More Bounce to the Ounce”).

The other night, Kathy S took Tom and me to see The Hunger Games as my birthday treat. We went to downtown’s Sundance Cinemas, my new preferred theater, and I noticed a woman who worked at the concession stand sweeping a couple of bottle caps from the counter. “May I have those?” I asked. She happily handed them to me. Then later, Kathy realized a friend of hers works at Sundance, and she arranged for me to get more bottle caps courtesy of her friend. That collection included this one, which sent Tom and me to the computer to try to find out what product it was connected to.

It was taking a while, and since it was a school night, he went to bed while I kept googling. Finally, I identified it and left him a note that said, “Found it! It’s a bottle cap for Arrogant Bastard Ale.” The next morning when I got up, he’d written under it, “Are you doing a painting about [name of an ex-boyfriend]?” Good one, Tom. It’s always nice to giggle first thing in the morning.

Eagle-eyed readers who know the coaster history might say, “Hey, isn’t that bottle cap propped against….”

Yes. It’s true. Lynne sneakily wrapped the damn lemon slice coasters in some cute little fabric remnants and tucked them in with my other birthday presents. And I had just been bragging that this is the first year I’ve been totally coaster-free in forever. No watermelon, lime, or lemon coasters–nor any of the other sets that have been passed around. I SURRENDER! I’m actually going to use the coasters at my desk. For now.

Would you like to see a few more birthday photos? On the Sunday before, we had a cookout. Steaks, baked potatoes, and salad for Tom, Tim, and me, joined by Lynne, Rhonda, Lindsey, and Kathy S. Here’s Tom manning one of the grills.

This is the cake that Lynne baked. Don’t EVEN think that a delicious, from-scratch cake and frosting atones for the return of those hideous horse heads, missy.

Here’s me opening presents, including a sunflower serving platter along with sunflower bowls and dessert plates from Tim.


Tom got me the full set of the Swimming Suit Basics, because Mattel has said this is their last Basics collection. He wanted to save me the time and gas money of going from Target to Target trying to find all six. Here, I have them tucked into a wire basket Lynne gave me (she received one for Christmas, and I coveted it).


Tom’s parents sent me a gorgeous flower arrangement.

Here’s a lovely sun catcher sent from Geri and David, created by the artist Morag Totten.

I love these super cool playing cards included in my basket o’ goodies from Lynne. I’ll take a George of Hearts, please.

Lindsey and Rhonda gave me a pack of canvases and a gift card to Michael’s… which brings me full circle to those bottle caps I should be putting in paintings right now.

Thanks again to everyone who shared the day with me by being at The Compound or with cards, emails, texts, and phone calls. I treasure your willingness to celebrate my thirty-fifth birthday yet again.

Compound on Leap Day

I’ve been watching everything in our yard, trying to assess how much damage was done by last year’s drought and the winter that never came. Not a single freeze. The redbud flowered and now is leafing out, but I think it has a couple of branches that need to be removed to promote the tree’s health. One azalea bush in the front bed is blooming; the others aren’t. However, Tim’s azalea has exploded.

We’re still in drought conditions and will probably endure another heinous summer of dry heat. I’m not even going to hope for grass until conditions return to normal. If they never do, I’ve vowed to cover the dirt with artificial grass. This idea is met with derision and eyerolls from other people living on The Compound. The dogs don’t care. I say if it’s good enough for zillion-dollar sports fields, it’s good enough for me. It’ll be like the Pixie Vs. Squirrel Super Bowl out there.

I have a set of butterfly wind chimes that my great-niece Morgan gave me when I spent time with her in Gatlinburg a few years ago. It hangs in my office door with another set of chimes my sister-in-law Janet gave me for Christmas one year. When the ceiling fans are on, the chimes provide nice music. Ever since she was a little baby, they’ve fascinated Hanley. Today she let me take a new photo for comparison purposes.


Hanley, 2009


Tim and Hanley, 2012

As they were leaving:

Hanley: Bye, butterfly!
Becky: Bye, Hanley!
Hanley: Butterflies don’t talk.
Becky: That was ME!
Hanley: (same facial expression I get from certain people when I talk about artificial grass)

Button Sunday

It’s Super Bowl Sunday!

I couldn’t find a funny football button, so I went with a good non sequitur button.

On the television: the game.

On the table: the crack dip with Wheat Thins, chips, veggie platter and ranch dressing.

In the crock pot: Italian meatballs for subs.

In the oven: brownies baking.

In the living room: Tom and my sister wife.

On the computer: me.

Have a great day!

Cupcake, anyone?


I made these for Lindsey’s birthday last Friday. Notice the hearts on the baking cups. And the little heart throws on the cake plate. And when I was putting on the sprinkles, without wearing my glasses, sprinkles I had also bought without my glasses, I kept thinking, These hearts are all distorted and inferior. Then when we were eating them, it was pointed out by EVERYONE that the sprinkles are lips, not hearts. Huh.


Among Lindsey’s gifts: Kathy S presented her with a duck phone. It doesn’t ring. It quacks. Obnoxiously. There’s nothing wrong with my hearing.

Legacy Writing 365:27

Yesterday was Lindsey’s birthday–the last year of her twenties. Since it’s Craft Night, The Brides, and Kathy S will be joining Tom, Tim, and me for some birthday festivities. I’m so glad I have a home where people–and dogs!–are willing to celebrate their occasions with us. Because, you know, CAKE!

I thought I’d share some photos of Lindsey Birthdays Past:


2006


2007


2008


2009


2010


2011

Happy birthday, Lindsey!

Paying it forward

It’s a wonderful day to be inside in Houston. Gray and full of portent. Tim surprised me earlier with Starbucks, the perfect treat for such a day. I’m paying it forward by presenting you all a bouquet of roses in the vase Tom’s mother gave me for Christmas.

She always finds the most stunning gifts in glass. It’s her artist’s eye and her generous heart. I’m definitely blessed in the in-laws department.

Where has all the crafting gone?

Lately, we haven’t been doing much crafting on Craft Night. Last week we might have, but instead we just created a big breakfast feast. No one’s sure why we all love breakfast at dinner. Some of us had parents who did breakfast suppers now and then. One had a mother who would never do it. But there’s something cozy and friendly about breakfast at night, especially when everyone’s pitching in. Including the fresh fruit above, some of the other choices were:


Rhonda’s wonderfully fluffy scrambled eggs. Also, cantaloupe and honeydew melon.


Here, I’m just showing off a Beatles glass, one of a set of four given to me by The Brides at Christmas.

Then there were hash browns, ham, and bacon. Tom manned the pancake griddle and took requests, which is how Lindsey ended up with Barney and T-Rex:

She settled on dinosaurs after he refused to do a Picasso or a Monet for her. Though if she’d said Manet instead:


Manet, White Peonies, 1864

Here’s a white Penny, 2012.

Oh, Christmas tree

One year, Tom’s parents didn’t take down their Christmas tree until Easter.

I may be exaggerating.

I’m not sure how long my parents left their trees up every year, but it’s always vaguely been in my head not to put it up before mid-December and not to have it up past New Year’s Day. I think Lynne’s tree was up this year by Thanksgiving: shocking! And mine is still up, and it’s January 2. Tom and Tim were both away for several days while Kathy S babysat me and a house full of dogs; we stayed up watching movies and talking every night, and I took a lot of naps and entertained dogs every day. This all means we’re a little behind in getting Christmas out of the house. Today, instead of being industrious, Tom would rather relax and catch up on his DVRd shows before going back to work, and I’d rather watch this entertaining documentary Puterbaugh recommended (Bill Cunningham New York–streams on Netflix) and take pretty photos like this:

So the heck with it. Where is it written that a house must be undecorated by a certain date? Are there Christmas police who’ll issue a citation? Will the dogs sleep any less soundly with all these festive Christmas lights sparkling around them? Is my sluggishness why people think the Mayan calendar says WE’RE ALL GONNA DIE?

The piece of Dove candy I snagged on my way to the computer told me:

Tom’s parents were right all along.