Saturday Roundup

Here are some things I’ve read this week that made me think, and I’ve added a few of those thoughts below each.


In many of the incidents of violence against people of color by police that we read about, I hear a lot of, “Well, he shouldn’t have been…” and “Didn’t she know better than to…” And I almost never agree with these, because for every “If only he/she had…” there are endless accounts of white people who didn’t do those things and didn’t end up dead. In this case in particular, a woman was killed for sleeping in her own home while Black. And still nothing has been done toward justice for her.


It is madness to me that one of the simplest ways of protecting ourselves and others has been politicized. Wearing a mask is “uncomfortable?” I challenge anyone to think of times they’ve been physically uncomfortable by choice and no one really benefitted. For example, that time you sat in a football stadium for hours in the freezing cold to watch a ballgame. Wearing a mask curtails your freedom and it’s wrong to mandate it? Do y’all know how tired I get of red lights? Should I be hindered as a driver by laws just so I don’t kill anyone by running a light? I could come up with these examples all day…


By all means, please do meditate and do yoga! It’s self-care and we all need it. Especially when we allow ourselves to grow, to feel uncomfortable, to do the hard work of living a just and honest life. It’s challenging to grow and change, but ultimately, stretching your heart and soul and mind are as important as the comfort and growth found in stillness.


You know I believe in education, but I also believe that children are resilient and learn so many things in so many different ways. We are in an extraordinary time and one thing I know about humans is that we find solutions. Parents and teachers, to use a couple of song titles: Help one another in finding creative ways to teach your children well. The kids are all right. Even when they go back to school, things may never be the “same.” As a larger community, it will be more important than ever to support educators and students.


Coming back to the case of Breonna Taylor and the two different worlds we live in… I can’t say more than what the original post points out.

Whatever Wednesday

Just a few things I’ve seen here and there over the past couple of weeks or so and thought I’d share.


I don’t have kids, but I have this bizarre notion that parents aren’t willing to offer their children as part of that .02%. Not once, since she was appointed, has Betsy Devos ever let me down in my initial belief that she would be education’s worst nightmare. I never thought she’d advocate murdering children, though.

July Fourth 2020

I am lucky enough to be able to keep up with most of our nieces, nephews, grand-nieces, and grand-nephews via social media (that isn’t Facebook). Today, I was struck very much by a page Cassidy shared, a re-post from Celisia Stanton:

It’s an hour ’til midnight now, and I’m still thinking about this. No doubt 2020, half gone, has been horrible and challenging. And yes, July Fourth is different for this white woman this year.

A thing I still believe: In the worst of times, there are moments of joy, grace, redemption, learning, and growth. Growth is never without pain.

Anyway, I put together this MagPo poem. Hope you’re all safe and sane and remembering to see the wonders and feel the joys.

There’s a word for this

American intel officials have concluded that a Russian military intel unit secretly offered bounties to Taliban-linked militants for killing coalition forces in Afghanistan — including targeting American troops. — The New York Times

The Washington Post and The Wall Street Journal matched the story.

“The intelligence finding was briefed to President Trump, and the White House’s National Security Council discussed the problem at an interagency meeting in late March, the officials said.” — New York Times

In late March.

In late May, in discussions with Putin, Trump attempted to invite Russia back into the G-7 (the G-8 before Russia’s expulsion due to Putin annexing the Ukraine’s Crimean Peninsula). G-7 allies reminded the U.S. that Russia is an outlaw nation and should not be readmitted to G-7 (U.S., Canada, France, Germany, Britain, Italy, and Japan).

“Coalition forces” with bounties on their heads mean U.S. troops and other allied troops, including Britain’s.

Since March, 20 U.S. troops have been killed; there is an ongoing investigation as to whether bounties were paid for our dead troops.

Russia denies.

No response from the White House at the time I’m posting this. Trump is golfing today.

Me, in 2018. Me, today.

Side note: More than 127,000 COVID-19 deaths in the U.S. currently reported.

How much of the U.S. population refuses to put this over their noses and mouths:

But they’re all right with this over their eyes:

“Thank you for being so brave”

The migraine has mostly faded. Processing some things right now and not sure how or when to discuss them. Everyone at the Hall is well; no worries.

Giving 23 minutes to this video by Nicole Walters, mom and entrepreneur. Twenty-three minutes is about what you’d give to a sitcom if you endured a few of the commercials, too.

This isn’t a sitcom. Nicole’s video from a couple of weeks back is raw, heartfelt, and honest. Hers is one of the voices we all need to hear. Thank you for giving your time to listen.

Click to see video

D-Day 76


Today is the 76th anniversary of the landing of Allied troops on the beaches of Normandy. My father (pictured above) was among them.

The Allies were fighting fascism, and due to current events, I’ve been reading a lot about fascism. The need for educating oneself never ends.

History isn’t comfortable. Change isn’t comfortable. Truth isn’t comfortable. From my discomfort, I strive to do better, be better.

Battered


I ordered these disposable masks on April 3. They just arrived–boxes beat up and far later than I needed them.

For a long time, I had one paper mask that I used over and over. Tom had one Lynne made for him. Then our friend Michelle sent us four that her mother made. My artist friend Jen sent me one she’d made. Debby ordered a couple, one of which was for me. I still have a couple on order that have yet to arrive.

I had hoped to at least have these disposable masks to offer to our contractors when the bathroom was being worked on. They are the first people other than Debby who have been in our house since March 10. They finished the work–maskless–last week.

I now plan on giving many of these out to other people who may need them and keeping some in reserve for future visitors to the Hall.

I can’t talk about what’s going on the US right now. I’m seeing some of the best of people, but it’s the worst of them that keeps me in turmoil. Every day brings something shocking. I need to get distance from it to have any kind of detached perspective to talk about it.

The protests all over the world not only highlight a sensitivity to racism in other countries but make me believe that everyone everywhere doesn’t hate us. It feels like they are able to separate us from the worst actions of a few, and that they have empathy for the American people no matter how little regard they have for our government. It helps.

I haven’t seen a worse administration in my lifetime, and I lived through Nixon. One man and a handful of his enablers have destroyed a political party, exploited our military, disrespected our vets, made a mockery of religious faith, waged war on our people and manipulated us into turning against one another, and abused state governments, Congress, and the courts–but oh, how they have profited. Power and profit are all that matter to them.

I have to stop now.

The America I Love…

The America I Love Needs to Do Better

Patriotism isn’t just the blind love of our flag. It is the work we do to improve our country for every American.

Arnold Schwarzenegger
38th governor of California

I immigrated to America in 1968. I had dreamed about coming here from the moment I saw images of the United States in elementary school. To me, the photos and film of towering skyscrapers, huge bridges, wide freeways, and Hollywood represented a land of limitless opportunity. I decided that this was where I belonged.

America was in the middle of a race to the moon, and at the end of 1968, we watched brave astronauts launch into the skies above in the first manned Apollo flight. Their mission seemed to prove that this was truly a country without limits.

But in 1968, as a new immigrant, I was shocked to learn that the country I had dreamed about since childhood wasn’t perfect. It wasn’t even close.

Protesters took to the streets to raise their voices about the disastrous Vietnam War, about racist policies all over the country, about women’s inequality. A racist lunatic, George Wallace, ran for president on a platform of keeping many Americans down, segregated from the opportunities that brought me here. Two great voices of hope, Martin Luther King Jr. and Robert F. Kennedy, were silenced by evil assassins.

On Saturday, we watched brave astronauts launch into space once again. And once again, our streets are filled with protesters who are fighting a system that limits them.

The past few days have brought another brutal reminder that America isn’t perfect. I still believe that we are the greatest country in the world, but we are at our best when we look in the mirror, face our demons, and cast them away to become a little bit better every day.

The protesters we see in the streets don’t hate America. They are asking us to be better. They are asking on behalf of our fellow Americans who no longer have a voice: Ahmaud Arbery, Breonna Taylor, George Floyd, and many others.

When I watched the horrible video of Floyd’s death, the first thing that I thought of was the video of Eric Garner losing his life for the crime of selling cigarettes. These weren’t dangerous criminals on the “most wanted” list, but these incidents are not nearly as rare as they should be.

It has to stop. It will take all of us standing up. It will take better training for police officers. It will take the majority of police officers, who are good, pushing for change. But it has to stop.

This isn’t an attack on police officers. It is a criticism of a broken system. My father was a police officer. I have always rooted for police officers. But you can be a fan of something and still see the wrong within it. And it is clear that something is very wrong.

My friend Erroll Southers, who has spent his career in law enforcement and served in my administration’s homeland-security department, wrote today: “I still get nervous when I receive the unexpected phone call at an odd hour, hoping my son, brother or relative has not become the next hashtag.”

Think about that. Erroll Southers is a professor at USC, a former FBI agent, an upstanding man in every sense of the word, and because of the color of his skin, when his phone rings in the middle of the night, his first thought is that his son or brother might be the reason for the next march.

I can’t even fathom that experience. If my kids FaceTime me late at night, it brings me joy, or maybe if they’ve been at a party, a laugh. It is completely unjust that for much of our population, those family calls bring anxiety.

It’s wrong, it’s unfair—and that’s why people are marching today.

It is our duty to listen to them. We can’t ignore the issues of inequality in this country. No one can claim with a straight face that black and brown kids in the inner cities get an education equal to what kids in the suburbs receive. No one can deny that minorities find themselves on the wrong end of our justice system in unequal numbers. No one with a heart can watch these murders and not feel deep sadness, anger, and even guilt.

It is very easy to see the burning buildings and destroyed businesses and look away from the meaning of the protests, or discount them entirely. Believe me, I hate riots as much as anyone, and the violence needs to stop now. Burning businesses and cars didn’t bring meaningful change after Watts or 1968 or the 1992 riots, and it won’t bring change today. These vandals only distract from the important message of the protests.

But we as Americans can’t let the smoke obscure the very real issues we must confront.

It isn’t easy work, looking in the mirror. As patriotic Americans, we want to believe that our nation is beyond racism. As individuals, we don’t want to believe that we harbor subtle stereotypes and prejudices. But it is important work, because the greatness of America doesn’t come from the status quo, it comes from our constant struggle to live up to our promise.

This, to me, is not a political issue. It is a patriotic issue. When Thomas Jefferson wrote that “all men are created equal,” our country certainly didn’t live up to that promise. But generations since have pushed the boundaries, bringing equality closer and closer to reality. That is the American story, and we must remember that it’s a painful story for anyone left out of the promise.

When I moved here in 1968, I thought I was coming to the greatest country in the world. I was. I didn’t know much about the nation’s inequality then, but I’ve learned a great deal since. That knowledge doesn’t make me love America any less, but it does make me want to fight for our country even more. I’ve tried to do my own small part, supporting after-school programs in our inner cities and, when I was governor, settling a long-standing lawsuit, to ensure that all students had qualified teachers, textbooks, and safe, clean, and functional schools. But today, I know that we can all do more.

“Whenever a building is constructed, you usually have an architect who draws a blueprint, and that blueprint serves as the pattern, as the guide, and a building is not well erected without a good, sound, and solid blueprint,” Martin Luther King Jr. told a group of graduating students in 1967. We need a proper, a solid, and a sound blueprint for fixing our country.

We didn’t get here in one administration, and we can’t fix things in one administration. When we built the interstate highway system, we made a plan. We knew the work would take decades, we knew it would be hard, but we did it anyway. If we can do it to make our roads better, we can do it to make our society more equal.

Patriotism isn’t just the blind love of our flag. It is the work we do to improve our country for every American. I want the unlimited opportunity that drew me here in 1968 to exist for every American, regardless of skin color.

And the next time we send a rocket into space, showing the world that we can soar past the limits of our atmosphere, I want every kid in an inner-city school to see it as a symbol of the possibility that lies ahead for them, instead of a symbol of an America that doesn’t belong to them.

We can do better. We have to be willing to listen, to learn, to look in the mirror and see that none of us is perfect. We have to be willing to see one another as Americans, and not as enemies. We have to be willing to sit down and do the hard work of reform without worrying about stupid party lines.

I’m ready to listen and work to make America better every day. Are you?

The Atlantic 5/31/2020

My mother died on June 1, 2008. Child of the Depression, fierce advocate for civil rights, military wife, and someone who loved her country, she’d have greatly appreciated the governor’s words, so I share them here today in her honor.

Button Sunday

First they discredit the free press.

“For years Donald Trump, Republicans, and Fox News have used tensions to raise money and consolidate power. They created a hyper-divided reality where cops are soldiers against the threat of minorities, protest is treason, and journalists are enemies.

“It was always heading here.

“You cannot chop everything up to dichotomous choices with paranoia and fear and not lead here. Fearmongering mixed with aggressive identity appeal like Blue Lives Matter, fascistic rhetoric and fashion, and stories of conspiracies and traitors gets you to a burgeoning civil war.

“This is what a society looks like when racism and paranoia and fear are the only appeals of a political party that can’t win elections or debates anymore without the destruction of democracy and fairness and basic human decency.

“Let’s be clear. We’ve got militarized police in our streets, brutalizing people, killing unarmed black men, because this nation has failed to live up to its principles and social contract and because its worst fears and prejudices have been played like an instrument by the Right.

“These things have always existed. White supremacy. Police brutality. America as a dangerously paranoid and violent country. These things have always plagued us. And like every time a group dresses itself in fascistic appeals, it escalates to this. The Right is in that tradition.

“It is like the 1960s and 1970s in that regard. Both eras saw calls for fairness and equality met by fascistic resistance by a power group terrified of losing power and militarized by paranoia and fear. These things happen here. It’s happening here now.

“It isn’t a coincidence that Trump, Republicans, and Right Wing media peddle white supremacy and white paranoia while our police forces and military are infected by white supremacists. It is the American disease and the Right has spread it and focused it for profit and power.

“The police are fighting minority protestors and journalists like they’re enemies because they’ve been turned into enemies, specifically enemies of white supremacy and power. There are consequences to fearmongering, to authoring a divisive society where fear wins power.”

Jared Yates Sexton is the author of American Rule, The Man They Wanted Me to Be, and The People Are Going to Rise Like the Waters Upon Your Shore. His political writing has appeared in publications including The New York Times, The New Republic, Politico, and Salon.com. Sexton is also the author of three collections of fiction and is an associate professor of creative writing at Georgia Southern University.