Oh, Mercury

There have been so many screwy things happening with hot water heaters, furnaces, pipes, computers, royalty checks, miscommunications, automobiles–not just here at The Compound, but among our friends–that it occurred to me to check on that whimsical planet Mercury. He did, in fact, go retrograde on December 26 and doesn’t go direct until January 15. Suddenly it all makes sense. Don’t be mad at Mercury, though. Instead of being reactive and combative, consider this a time to gather information about things you want to change or correct. Once he goes direct, you’ll be ready to take action based on clear thinking and good decisions.

If all else is going wrong, eat delicious cornbread. Here’s a basket of it I baked the night of the Alabama-Texas game, using my old iron corn-pone skillet and a new divided iron skillet that Tim got me for Christmas. That afternoon, I received a text from Lynne inviting me to watch the game with her and others at her son’s house. I texted back that NO way was I going into enemy territory while the Tide was playing. Though Lynne’s an Auburn fan (her family school), she was pulling for Bama against Texas and didn’t want to be the only one with all those UT fans around her. Right after I invited her to The Compound, I got a text from Lindsey, who suggested combining a craft night with the game. Though Lynne and Kathy weren’t able to join us, Lindsey and Rhonda braved crossing the prairie in the frigid weather (four blocks!) to help us eat a big pot of chili, the cornbread, and queso and chips. Painting was the perfect activity for me while the game was on, ’cause I never actually sit near the TV on game days. This is because many times when Tom has been watching an Alabama game, the other team scores when I walk into the room. It’s almost like I’m the Crimson Tide’s Mercury in retrograde.

So I painted (I could see the TV from the dining room), Lindsey knitted while she sat in the living room with Tom, Rhonda knitted in the dining room with me, and Lynne, my sister, and I texted back and forth all kinds of OMGs and Roll Tides! and EEKs, and in the end, my alma mater won the National Championship in an exciting game. It’s been a long, long time.

Also last week, I was able to revisit the non-sports side of my college years when I talked to my wonderful friend Debbie on the phone. She was my college roommate through undergraduate school and again for a while during graduate school. Since she’s lived in Sweden for many years, her Christmas visits home provide our rare opportunities to catch up. Last year I was able to see her, but even a phone call reminds me how lucky I am to have her friendship.

Project Runway starts a new season next week, and people are asking if I’m going to be doing the challenges with my dolls. I plan to, even though both of my computers are making me wonder if I’ll even be online soon. Maybe things will be right again when the planets behave.

I did complete a “practice” project. In an effort to be greener, we decided to stop using paper napkins. I had a couple of sets of cloth napkins, and Tim bought a third at Christmas. I learned from a communal kitchen on my brother’s compound (it’s a family thing!) that the most eco-friendly way to use napkins is to launder them only when they need it. In that kitchen, they keep a board with all the residents’ names painted above the pegs where they hang their napkins. Since I don’t have room for a pegboard, I decided to take some unfinished napkin rings I had, paint them, and put people’s names on them. (Though only three of us live on The Compound, seven people eat here semi-regularly.) So we can eliminate paper napkins and be more efficient with laundering, too.

Using a fabric remnant I picked up at the craft store a while back (for less than a dollar!), my new sewing machine and I did: My First Project.


Newly painted napkin rings (no names yet) and eight napkins.
Do NOT look too closely at those seams*. I’m learning!

And by seams, I probably mean hems.

New Orleans Notes, No. 6, plus more

Every morning but our last in New Orleans, Tim went out for breakfast and brought breakfast back to me in the hotel room. I felt SO spoiled. It was wonderful to have yummy food delivered to me as if I were some Very Important Person.

Our last morning in the Crescent City, we’d planned to meet Lisa, ‘Nathan, and Dan at the Clover Grill, but Tim was feeling a little under the weather, so I walked there alone. I was reminded when seeing Lisa’s photos that I, too, upon watching her whip out her camera, took the obligatory Clover Grill breakfast plate shot. Mmmmmm, grits: one of those things that say “back home” to me, even though my real “back home” is one state east and a few hours north of New Orleans. Roll Tide.

As we were eating, I watched the intersection of Bourbon Street and Dumaine come to life, including a house across Dumaine. Men emerged to sit on the stoop, squint against the sun, and wake up to the day. I noticed a “Happy Birthday” sign spraypainted on one of the windows and was idly writing a little story in my head in between the conversations at our table.

Later, when we stepped outside after our meal, I got one of my favorite shots of the trip, capturing an unexpected, happy moment, when Lisa strode across the street and asked the men, “How was the party?” Why hadn’t I realized that OF COURSE she’d probably been talking to the guys for days as she went back and forth to our favorite little café, and undoubtedly she knew all kinds of details about them. I just adore her. And if I’m wrong, Lisa, don’t tell me, ’cause I love the way you never meet a stranger.


Lisa, chattin’ it up with the dudes.

Lovely memories. But back to Houston and this week…

Monday morning I was reminded of how spoiled I got in New Orleans when Tim came home from the gym with a breakfast sandwich from Jack in the Box for me. It was a nice beginning to what could have been a yucky day. June 1 is the first anniversary of my mother’s death, and Sunday night, I finished reading Scott Heim’s We Disappear while sobbing. What an achingly moving book by such a good writer. In earlier times, I’d have grabbed my quill pen and written him a tear-stained letter of admiration and gratitude. Instead, I sent him an e-mail and received one back from him. There’s a lot to be said for today’s more immediate gratification, and those two e-mails will remain intensely special to me always.

In addition, my brother, sister, and I exchanged some funny e-mails. I’m so glad I was born into a family where we were taught the value of humor for release and coping.

I had an eye appointment on Monday afternoon, and since I knew my eyes would be dilated, Tim graciously agreed to be my driver. (Another thing I could get used to. What am I talking about? I already have.) Off we went to the Galleria. While I was waiting for my glasses (a new prescription because my distance vision has improved, while my close-up vision worsened–I blame all that sewing), Tim further indulged me.

As many of you know, Janet Evanovich’s Stephanie Plum novels became some of my favorite escapist reading after a friend recommended them when I was just starting to write A Coventry Christmas. (She did so after she found out that I, like Evanovich, was giving my main character a hamster.) The characters in these books just slay me with their quirks and exploits. I was able to hook my mother on them, and we used to crack up as we recounted the shenanigans of characters like Grandma Mazur, Sally Sweet, Albert Kloughn, and Lula. I think Evanovich has done a masterful job of introducing three hot men–Joe, Ranger, and Diesel–into Stephanie’s life and balancing them over fourteen “numbers” books (Finger Lickin’ Fifteen releases the end of this month!) and four “between-the-numbers” books. When Tim was in the hospital in 2007 and needed something light to read, those were the books I took to him.

So Monday, being the friend he is, Tim agreed to go on a hunt with me for the Bvlgari shower gel that Ranger uses because I wanted to know how Ranger smells. But as we scanned the men’s fragrance shelves in Nordstrom and Macys, none of the names were jumping out at me. Then we went to Etoile Perfumery, where the sales associate pointed out that there were some unisex Bvlgari products, too. I still wasn’t sure about the name, so we went to Borders to look through the books. Tim finally spotted the exact name in one of the later books: Green Tea. Back to Etoile to check out the scent. They didn’t have the shower gel, but since Tim’s out of Marc Jacobs, he said he’d be willing to wear this because it smells as delicious as Stephanie Plum says. I happen to have a checking account that I shared with my mother that still has money in it, so we paid for it using that account. She’d have gotten a kick out of the Ranger connection. Plus it was ON SALE, as it originally had been part of a set, and the other item was missing. What budget-conscious mother doesn’t teach us the value of buying stuff that’s ON SALE, right?!?

Then I almost got us eighty-sixed from the Galleria. Apparently, there are NO PHOTOS signs at every entrance to this shopping mecca. Which is weird, because I’ve ALWAYS taken photos there, especially at the ice rink. I guess it’s because only a terrorist would take a photo of a ginormous American flag. Ha, I got my shot before the security guard yelled at me. For scale, that’s Tim standing on the walkway directly beneath the flag.


He smells good, too.

Last week’s birthday

The story of Tim’s birthday last week:

I didn’t know how to decorate the cake, so I printed childhood photos of everyone who’d be at Tim’s birthday dinner and put them on the cake. Tim’s photo was biggest, of course, to indicate that he was King of the Playground.

Lynne must have mentally picked up on the kids’ theme, because she brought Tim a bag of silly toys along with his real gift. Like groovy sunglasses and head gear:

and Silly Sludge:

We posed for a group shot holding our kid photos:

Then aliens came.

And stole our souls.

The End.

New Orleans Notes, No. 4

There’s a reason why cameras were made: for touchingly funny moments like this one.

We’d finished dinner at Margaritaville and were getting ready to leave when Lindsey and Mike suddenly shared an impromptu dance.

Before the long Saints and Sinners weekend, of those who would be present, only Greg, Marika, and Lisa had ever met The Brides in person. Marika, Tim, and I knew that was about to change, but we kept the secret, so Lindsey and Rhonda’s arrival in New Orleans on Thursday night took the others by surprise. Less than twenty-four hours later, it was as if ‘Nathan, Dan, David, Michael, Jeffrey, Mike, and Rob had known them always.

Here’s my version of the now infamous “Last Supper” shot.


Mike, Rhonda, Jeff, Lindsey, Lisa, Marika, Tim, Michael, ‘Nathan, David, Dan, Rob

New Orleans Notes, No. 2

When I realized that Mark G. Harris wasn’t going to be able to attend the Saints and Sinners Literary Festival this year, I wanted to find a way to include him in the goings-on. Besides the fact that he wouldn’t be able to read his beautiful short story “Love Taps” from Fool For Love or enjoy the many informative panels, master classes, and readings, he’d be missing out on the social aspect of the festival. There’s something electrifying about getting so many creative people together in one place. Not only can you reconnect with old friends and fellow writers, but you never know who you’ll meet and how that will inspire you. In fact, it was Timothy’s and my chance meeting with Mark at the festival in 2006 that led to his writing “Love Taps.” And led to his creating his LiveJournal account. And led to a wealth of new friendships–those Mark has found or who have found him, as well as the ones he’s brought to me and to others.

There were going to be far better photographers than I at the festival–many of them Mark’s and my mutual friends. So I knew I couldn’t dazzle him with my mad camera skillz. (And good heavens, if any of you haven’t seen this photo taken by Dan, check it out. It’s proof that hundreds of people can shoot the same scene, but a truly gifted photographer makes it his own.)

There is another passion Mark and I share outside of writing. With the help of a 1972 McCall’s pattern, carefully selected mod fabrics, seven enthusiastic models, and our friends, I offer Mark my unique experience of this year’s festival.

Behind the cut to save your monitor.

ONLY in the city…

You’ve read from Tim and me many times on LJ about this occurrence. But here it is: photographic evidence that ANYONE will park in front of The Compound.

There were a lot of lawn and garden people working in the ‘hood today. I guess the truck follows their businesses. And what the hell–even in front of my house, I admire the entrepreneurial spirit of A Moveable Feast.*

*Out of deference to Lindsey, I’m giving this rig a nice Hemingway name instead of what people usually call it.