I previously posted a photo of Mark Rothko’s 1952 painting Blue, Green, and Brown,, oil on canvas.
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Recap
Strange week filled with ups and downs and serendipity and labor put into things other than writing.
I get a monthly newsletter from author Carolyn Haines. I’ve downloaded her latest Sarah Booth Delaney mystery, Bones of Holly to my eReader and will be reading it this month. In her most recent newsletter, she provided a link to a free reading of a short novella called “Junebug Fischer” by author Mandy Haynes. Here’s the description: Junebug Fischer will be ninety-six come June. She’s ready to set the record straight and let you know what really happened the summer she turned fifteen. It’s true, she killed someone, but she never killed nobody on purpose. That was purely accidental. I don’t know how long the novella will be free, but this link will enable you to either download it to your favorite reader or open it on your computer to read without downloading: link to read ‘Junebug Fischer’. I enjoyed it, and I’ll be reading more by Mandy Haynes.
December has a few challenging anniversaries, so I’m always grateful for the good stuff. A couple of high points of the week included a good update about a family member’s surgery and a photo my brother texted to a proud sister/aunt showing him with his son and grandsons. I already have that photo printed and hanging in the family and friends gallery in the hall.
For years, I’ve tried to replicate my mother’s recipe for fried corn. She gave me directions. She let me watch her do it. She told me the specific kind of fresh corn on the cob I needed to buy and how to prepare it the way she did. I have never found corn sold under that name. And I have never successfully made a batch of corn that tastes like hers. This week was no exception. I mean, the corn was fine, but it wasn’t hers. I’ve searched and tried online recipes. I’ve enjoyed Lynne’s version that she cooks the way her mother did. Even the best fried corn I’ve eaten doesn’t taste like my mother’s. I try this at most every two or three years, so it’s not a big deal, and in one way, my failure amuses me: my mother would like knowing she did something no one else has been able to do. (There are many others; even if she never acknowledged those, I do.)
In the few years before I was laid off from my job because of the pandemic, one of my holiday frustrations was not having the time to address and send Christmas cards to friends and family. I could start the process in December but sometimes didn’t finish it until my March birthday and, one year, even Easter. No more job meant this is one activity I’ve been able to accomplish since 2020 before Christmas. This year might be my earliest ever, partly because we were able to get a family photo in November thanks to Lindsey.
Yesterday, I dropped the first batch of cards in the mail when I had to pick up more stamps at the post office, and today, I’ll be sending the rest in the batch pictured here.
While finishing the task might not seem like a big deal, this particular activity provides me a much-needed feeling of connection. That’s helpful since I’ve drastically reduced texting and messaging using social media due to ongoing technical problems (e.g., wonky computers, Internet outages) but also the state of the world (watching billionaires have public pissing contests with one another on unnamed apps or millionaires detail their lives via “reality” shows or TikTok videos holds no allure for me at all; your mileage may vary).
I have three gifts to box and ship (once I do a little more shopping) that will include what I think are the last of my cards. After that, I can focus on the remainder of our holiday preparations, including Tom’s birthday on Christmas day, and maybe then, finally, my brain will assure me it’s okay to focus on my fictional work in progress. I need writing to feel balanced, too.
I’m ahead on one thing, though: I have my New Year’s Resolution all ready. =)
Only Over You
I had a post planned for today, but it’ll have to wait. I’m crushed by the news of Christine McVie’s death. I don’t feel like writing much about it, so I thought I’d share photos of a few mementos.
Ticket stub from when I saw Fleetwood Mac at the Coliseum in Birmingham, Alabama, on the Tusk tour in 1980. Amazing concert and my first time to see the band with the Fleetwood/McVie/McVie/Buckingham/Nicks lineup.
My program from that concert.
When Lindsey Buckingham left Fleetwood Mac in the late 1980s, the band recorded Behind The Mask and toured with Billy Burnette and Rick Vito joining the McVies, Fleetwood, and Nicks on stage. I knew every word of every song on the album, so I very much enjoyed seeing them with Tom at the Summit in Houston in 1990, ten years after my first Mac concert.
Twenty-five years later, my favorite version of the band was back: Mick Fleetwood, John McVie, Christine McVie, Lindsey Buckingham, and Stevie Nicks. I got to see them at the Toyota Center with Tim thanks to a friend who gifted us the tickets.
By then, I was part of the cell phone generation, so here’s a blurry photo of Christine on keyboards, with John behind her at the bank of speakers, Mick on his drum riser, and Stevie and Lindsey front of stage. They were fantastic, as if it hadn’t been thirty-five years since that first concert. I’m so grateful I saw them on that tour.
I can’t close without hoping that somewhere, Christine and Dennis are making music together again.

A few words from her song “Only Over You,” inspired by and written for and about Dennis Wilson.
Angel, please don’t go
I miss you when you’re gone
They say I’m a silly girl
But I’m not a fool
I’m out of my mind
But it’s only over you
I’m out of my mind
But it’s only over you
Mood: Monday
I previously posted a photo here of the artist Cary Gang’s oil on canvas painting from 2018, Indefinite Articles.
Mood: Monday
I posted a photo of artist Jean Delaney’s acrylic on canvas painting Master of Frolicking here.
acrylic on canvas, contemporary
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© Jean Delaney, Canada
Mood: Monday
I posted a photo of mixed media on wood panel artwork by artist Debora Levy titled Rethink.
Mood: Monday
I posted a photo of Mosaic Ravens, a fractal art and digital college by Elizabeth McTaggart from 2019.
Between the worlds of men and make believe…
I’m having a lovely, quiet Saturday. I had a photo ready for my Instagram World Series skeleton post, and we’ll be watching the game tonight. Part of the fun of that is how out of character watching and enjoying baseball is for me–and how it would surprise the men of my past who loved this game I wanted nothing to do with.
This morning into afternoon, I’ve been writing and, on writing breaks, coloring, and through it all, listening to the four CDs that are part of a Dan Fogelberg collection. This music takes me to so many past times and relationships that make me feel good when I think of them. I suspect it’s because not a single one of the men I loved or who broke my heart, or any who tried to shape, change, or control me, are connected in any way to Dan Fogelberg. I know there was a friend who also loved his music and with whom I used to talk about him. It could have been another Becky who was a year behind me in high school but really became my friend a few years later. I held her in high esteem, and she was a good confidante and advisor to me many times. I also shared his music with my mother because she loved his song “Run For the Roses” so much. It was on the slideshow CD I made to play at the gathering after her memorial service.
The title of this post is from Dan Fogelberg’s song “Scarecrow’s Dream,” which I’ve always said is the song that describes my life and who I am.
This is how I write
This is not how I always write. But this is how I write the Neverending Saga (which I’m tackling sometimes only a paragraph a day). I’m taking the reader on a journey. I’m not worried about the pacing (people will say that’s a no-no). I’m not worried that everything and everyone isn’t perfect from the first motion out of the gate and may never be perfect. They can only be who they are.
Sometimes things will go slowly. Sometimes things will come fast.
It’s like life. The older I get, the more I see both the shock and the gentleness of patterns, of connections, in my real-life personal timeline. I think of those readers who aren’t willing to stay along for the ride when they read something they don’t like, wouldn’t do, don’t approve of, whatever. To me, their distrust of the writer (me), their unwillingness to find out what happens next, is akin to those people in my life who couldn’t extend grace, forgiveness, compassion, tolerance toward me and stick it out with me through the years.
Others were willing to take a long, winding trip with me even when they weren’t sure of the destination. I cherish them as I hope one day to cherish readers of what I’m working on.
I am not for everybody. Everything I write won’t be for everybody, either.
Hump Day
Let’s see. This week I’ve managed to vote (oh, the things I could say, and may say, but not today–except to note that the people who work our polls are helpful, upbeat, friendly, and I appreciate them so much) with Tom, Tim, and Debby. Tim was kind enough to take a selfie with my phone.
I’ve composed a two-page letter with 11 attachments to try to resolve a situation that has caused me abundant stress for the last seventeen months. You don’t want to see any photos of that–including how I look when I wake up at 5:00 AM and decide there are a few more things I need to do before that packet can be faxed.
Every day, I take on a small household task in addition to the routine bedmaking, straightening up, meal planning and cooking, and cleaning up after four dogs (who yesterday were stuck inside because it drizzled all day and it takes a village to get them outside in the rain, and I am but one person). Also, my Instagram posts take a little time to set up, shoot, and then put everything away.
Yesterday’s small task was giving the inside of the refrigerator a good cleaning and organizing it better. I’m not sure what today’s task will be–after I have breakfast and then take a nap since I woke up way too early.
I spotted this photo of actor Viola Davis this morning in my Instagram feed of accounts I don’t follow but show up because of other accounts I do follow. I think she’s pretty fabulous.
But what made me pause and screencap was that her fashion reminded me of an outfit I made for my first Runway Monday final collection in October 2008 based on characters in my novel A Coventry Christmas. Here’s Keelie in the same color palette.
Enjoy the middle of the week! Gonna leave you with this old Crowded House song I love.