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Random Monday


One of the things I make available to the rescue where I volunteer is a database of names I keep (right now, it’s in excess of 4000 names) that they can use for the dogs or cats they take into the program. Not all the animals are named from this list, and often names are given to them by other people that are only coincidentally on my list. But whatever the source of the names, many of the ones I put on my list have personal meaning to me or are connected to people I know or have known. I don’t know who chose Peanut for this little month-old rottie mix, but I knew two people nicknamed Peanut in high school, so I’ll just pretend our head cheerleader gave this one her nickname.

It’s goofy, but I remember Peanut whenever I eat a McDonald’s cheeseburger and fries. She’s the person who taught me to put French fries on my cheeseburger. Decades later, I still do this, but only on cheeseburgers and only if they’re from McDonald’s.


Other food that reminds me of people: A couple of friends who were married not long after I graduated from high school invited my boyfriend and me to dinner one night. My mother never cooked Rice-A-Roni, so that night was the first time I’d ever eaten it. I liked it and the dish she served it in. When that boyfriend became my first husband, the couple gave us a set of three Pyrex bowls that matched theirs, and ever since, if I dish up Rice-A-Roni, it’s always in that bowl. Funny how people come and go from our lives, but some of the traditions they started endure.

This past weekend, some of The Brides’ friends went out to a delayed dinner to celebrate Rhonda’s birthday. Tom and I met them later at Sweet Cup Gelato and Espresso for dessert. Rhonda received her own minion for her birthday, and I love this photo of them together. We all need minions.

Speaking of birthdays, guess who was born today, May 26? That’s right–Stevie Nicks! And Lenny Kravitz!
And of course, this guy.

Happy birthday, Timothy J. Lambert!

Wishing everyone a safe and happy Memorial Day. I hold in my thoughts all those whose lives have been lost in service to our country.

Signings

We had so much fun at Murder By The Book last night and appreciate everyone who came to listen to us talk about our work and who bought books. Thank you all!

Murder By The Book is of course a bookstore that sells mystery, crime, and fantasy books and our anthologies are romance. Though actually–what is more mysterious than the human heart, on whose behalf we live much of our life fantasizing? Seriously, this bookstore is so good to local authors and is happy to support us with signings and publicity. For that and so many other reasons, MBTB exemplifies why bookstores should exist and thrive in every city and town. Online booksellers are great for people who don’t have independent bookstores (or, increasingly, even big box bookstores) where they live, and they’re a good place for reviews when that system is used legitimately, but nothing can measure up to the respect, effort, and knowledge you’ll find in a real bookstore where the staff loves books, their work, and writers. Thank you so much to McKenna, John, and the entire MBTB team.

It’s always great to sign with other authors. It’s a lot less daunting when I have not only my editing partner next to me, but two contributors who were there, as well. Plus we signed with Dean James (or “Miranda James” for purposes of the Cat in the Stacks series) and Kimberly Frost. Kimberly’s Southern Witch series has been re-released in mass market paperback (the first two are already available, the third releases March 4) and her brand new number four in the series, Slightly Spellbound, comes out in May.


Left to right, Kevin Langson, whose story “Brooding Intervals” is in Best Gay Romance 2014, Kimberly Frost, Dean James, Taylor McGrath, whose story “A Royal Mess” is in Foolish Hearts, me, and Timothy J. Lambert.

Booksignings–no matter which side of the table I’m on–always invigorate me and renew my interest in writing creatively. They are good places to connect with other writers, too. For example, we met an aspiring writer last night. Who knows–one day we may be asked to do another anthology and will be inviting him to submit a story. One of the questions last night was about our process for choosing writers for the anthologies we’ve edited. I thought I’d share here how we knew/heard of the writers whose work is in all three of the anthologies (including 2009’s Fool For Love).

9–We were familiar with their work through their published novels and/or short stories. We liked the way they wrote and knew they’d give us something reflecting a unique and interesting voice.

1–We met at the Lambda Literary awards.

2–Referred to us by another writer whose opinion we respected.

6–We met at Saints and Sinners, so they later queried us; or, we had conversations with them, heard them read from their work, bought their work, and were interested enough to ask them to submit stories. None of them ever “pitched us” at this event, and sometimes our conversations weren’t even about writing. That isn’t to say you shouldn’t pitch if you get the opportunity when you meet agents or editors. Lots of successful publishing experiences begin that way.

8–Social media–Knew of them by reading their blogs, knew of them because they read and commented on our blogs, or we were on writer message boards with them. But here’s the key. We formed relationships with them over time, or admired their writing. We didn’t meet them by being flooded with self-promotional updates on Facebook and Twitter. Social media works, but it works best when used thoughtfully.

6–We didn’t know them and hadn’t read their work, but they queried us or responded to our calls for submissions.

3–We knew them personally, two of those being Timothy J. Lambert and Timothy Forry, part of the Timothy James Beck team. Since we all met originally online, maybe that also fits into the social media category.

If you don’t already have a body of work, you can see there are definitely other avenues that will get stories published. The biggest feat, of course, is actually writing them. I wonder what the ratio is for people who talk about writing that book or story one day compared to those who actually follow through. You can’t be published if you don’t write.

I’ll stop nagging now and go back to the fun part with another photo, this one graciously provided by Lewis DeSimone. There was a reading/event at Books Inc. in San Francisco that included three of our contributors.


Left to right, Felice Picano (“New Kid in Town: 1977” in Foolish Hearts, “The Invincible Theatre” in Best Gay Romance 2014), Rob Rosen, Lewis DeSimone (“Quality Time” in Best Gay Romance 2014), and Rob Williams (“Bothered, Bewildered” in Foolish Hearts).

Wish I could have been there to enjoy that signing/reading, too! If any of our other contributors are part of events, please let us know! And we always love photos.