The phrase “may you live in interesting times” is often called a Chinese curse. Its origin is not Chinese, and whether or not it is a blessing or a curse depends on one’s perspective.
Interesting can certainly mean brutal, painful, or turbulent. But in such times, humans can also rise to our best. We can find imaginative solutions to challenges. Out of painful times often emerge fresh ideas and a renaissance of creativity of the type that renews and celebrates instead of denigrates and tears us down and apart.
Today was interesting from a historical perspective, and I have a million thoughts, all of which are undoubtedly better expressed by others, and many of which would be met with derision and an eyeroll from those who disagree with me. It doesn’t matter. I don’t think for the approval of others, and I’m unfazed by anyone who believes I don’t actually think. I’m secure in what I believe, and most importantly, I know that my default settings are compassion and balance.
What hurt me most today, and should hurt anyone who has ever known someone who’s been widowed, was the cruelty directed at Michigan Congresswoman Debbie Dingell. The words, the disgusting applause and laughter for the words: simply not tolerable.
Recently my friend Denece pointed out that I share a birthday with a powerful woman. Today, I stand with Congresswoman Nancy Pelosi not just for those of her political beliefs with which I am aligned, but because the photo below reminds me of the power of women who support each other, who hold one another up, who show strength, grace, and kindness when it’s most needed. It’s not the power of politics or wealth or fame; it’s the power of character.
Photo credit: J. Scott Applewhite
I have been in a news blackout for a few weeks so I can honestly say ” I have no idea what your talking about .” over the holidays. So all this is new to me . and let me say JESUS….