Memorial Day

My father and mother are buried in a military cemetery in North Alabama. I’d go there today if I could. Since I’m eight hundred miles away, I went to Houston National Cemetery. It was touching to see how many other people had the same idea–entire families looking at names on stones, placing flowers and flags, probably most of them on the graves of strangers.

There’s something particularly sobering about seeing the letters KIA on the stone of a young person whose tour of duty lists Iraq.

You can click (multiple times) on any of these photos to see them larger.

The Lost Girls

Over my almost six years of posting here, I’ve scattered a few details of a family who I think helped create the person I am today, including a much loved uncle, Gerald, and his wife and children. Gerald was my mother’s brother, and much of their writing took place in letters they sent each other. I have many of Gerald’s letters to my mother, and his son Bruce has some of her letters to his father. We’ve both said that we should match them up, but it’s a task I’ve yet to undertake because I know it’ll feel a little like I’m intruding on a conversation not meant for me. One day…

As well as being avid readers, everyone in my immediate family writes (both of my late parents, both of my siblings), so writing was obviously respected and encouraged. In my case in particular, Uncle Gerald urged me to develop as a writer. So is writing an activity that’s nurtured? I certainly know writers who were never encouraged by anyone to take up the pen–and some whose families don’t even know they write. So then is writing an innate compulsion, maybe the result of a recessive gene that suddenly surfaces and dooms its carrier to rejection letters and meager compensation?

What causes any compulsion to create? That question is probably as old as the first time a kid “defaced” a cave wall and his father looked at his mother and grunted, his facial expression conveying, Can’t you control him? and her expression replying, He gets it from YOUR side of the family.

Uncle Gerald has a granddaughter he never got to meet, and though I know and love her parents, I’ve also never met her. But either because she was encouraged to write, or because she has the writing gene, I’m about to enjoy the experience of getting to know her. She and two friends have written The Lost Girls: Three Friends. Four Continents. One Unconventional Detour Around the World., a book about their decision to leave their jobs and their boyfriends and take a year to travel the globe. From Publishers Weekly:

[T]he three take turns chronicling a journey from Peru to Kenya to Vietnam to Australia, and everywhere in between. Though they don’t always get along, the three learn to rely on each other, keep their minds open and throw themselves enthusiastically after every adventure that comes their way. The three authors, all gifted writers (each has worked as a journalist), provide passionate, vivid descriptions of their far-flung travels, bolstered by thoughtful insights and genuine intentions, making this an intensely enjoyable read for fans of travel writing; their semi-improvisatory experience provides a broader look at travel than either a luxury tour or a backpacking trip would, proving especially resonant. This memoir should also be immediately relatable for any twenty-something unsure of his or her future (i.e., most of them).


Authors Amanda Pressner, Holly C. Corbett, and Jennifer Baggett, with Jennifer’s parents Bruce and April, at the book launch party in New York.

When April sent the photos from the party, she expressed her delight that the reviews call Jennifer a journalist, because her blog and the book are actually her first writing ventures. I like to think she’s blended her sense of adventure and her drive with a writing talent she inherited from her grandfather.

For more information about these young writers and their book, there’s a great article in USA Today. You might also have seen them interviewed on TV–I’m very excited for them!

I’m sure The Lost Girls, published by Harper Collins, is available from your local booksellers–I hope to be picking up mine today–and of course you can order it from amazon.com.

It’s been a week already!

My favorite interchange of the last week (a nod to our friend James), as I thanked Tim for bringing me the Honda emblem that he spotted lying on the ground after the wreck:

Tim: Will next be seen in a shadowbox.

Me: With a poem written about it.

On Saturday, Tom and I went to the repair lot to empty out Jet after he was officially declared totaled. Of course, I took photos. I also thanked Jet for taking such a hit–he was a lot more damaged than I’d understood him to be–yet still protecting his three precious passengers.

I want to thank everyone who’s sent e-mails, called, Tweeted, or checked in on Facebook. Tim and I opted not to give details and to keep our comments closed on LJ because other vehicles/property/people are involved. You never want to put anything on the Internet that could be misconstrued.

Something that made me laugh: A couple of years ago, I noticed that Jet had lost a reflector from his bumper. When I took him in for his regular servicing, I asked the dealer to replace it. Now anyone with sense knows this is a bad idea, right? Because a part that costs less than ten dollars will run you about the equivalent of two tanks of gas if you let the dealer put it on. Boy, was I bitter.

So when Tom took me to the scene of the accident on Saturday and I spied THIS in the gutter, I was all MINE!

It’ll add color to that shadowbox.

Bribe me!

I was just reading a story about how the Duchess of York got embarrassed in a scam in which she promised access to Prince Andrew for large sums of money. Look, I LIKE Sarah Ferguson, and some might call her resourceful.

So, inspired by her, I’m willing to make this offer. Though Tim is my friend and not my ex-husband, I DO have access to his inner circle. In exchange for large sums of money, I’m willing to get you an audience with Rexford G. Lambert and Pixie P. Lambert. They practically live with him–wait, they do live with him!–so you see that I’ve got enormous inroads.

Failing that, does anyone want to buy twelve paintings or three others that are hanging in my living room and pictured below? I painted all of them, but I could probably get Tim to breathe on them or something before I give them up. Negotiate with me!

Or see my good name ruined in the tabloids. Your choice.

Button Sunday


The cats pictured on this button, Merlot, Chablis, and Syrah, can be found in
Leann Sweeney’s Cats in Trouble mystery series.

It’s been quite a week, so it was lovely to spend an hour at Houston’s Murder By the Book on Saturday to hear Leann talk about the second book in the series, The Cat, the Professor and the Poison. I always enjoy hearing other authors share stories about their novels and their characters at signings.

Kudos to MBTB for making these events so pleasant for authors and readers. And a special hello to Debbie, who I first met when the bookstore hosted my signing for A Coventry Christmas in 2006 (even though it’s not a mystery, no matter what rumors you may hear!). Debbie, it was lovely to talk to you again.

I’m sending lots of good wishes for Leann’s continued success with the Cats in Trouble series–and hopefully future additions to the Yellow Rose mystery series as well!